7 Traditions That Need to Stop

I am very much a traditional person in a lot of ways.  I expect cake on my birthday, endless lights at Christmas and a yearly trip to the beach.  With that said there are some traditions that I am pleading with people to please stop.  Some of these have been around for decades, if not centuries, while others seemed to have developed in recent years.

1 – Bridal showers.  These seriously serve no purpose in my eyes.  Back in the day when couples did not live together before marriage but rather were still living at home with their parents these made sense.  The couple needed new appliances and odds and ends for their home.  Now most people have all they need prior to their wedding either because they’ve been living on their own or with their significant other.  Not to mention bridal showers are boring.  No one wants to waste a perfectly good afternoon being forced to socialize with people they barely know and watch someone open gifts.  It’s fun when the person is 4.  24 – not so much.

2 – Viewings.  Ok this probably will hit a nerve with some people, but realize I have much different views on the afterlife than most.  I recognize some people need these for closure, and offer a way for those to pay their respects who may not be able to make it to the funeral.  I get it.  I just don’t like them.  I’m forced to dress nicely to go somewhere for maybe 15-20 minutes and, in my case, avoid viewing a deceased person, just to say the same things to the family that everyone else is saying.  I would much rather attend the funeral (though really wish people would always have a closed casket) if it’s someone very close to me, or for casual relationships pay my respects via a card or call.

3 – Pork and sauerkraut.  This is strictly a south central PA tradition so for those who haven’t heard of it, it’s tradition on New Year’s Day to eat this meal for good luck.  It’s disgusting, and I’ve survived almost 30 years with an average amount of good luck without ever eating it.  Even avoiding the sauerkraut itself I find I can’t enjoy the pork because it’s been cooked in it.

4 – Huge family reunions.  I’m not talking about your grandparents and cousins; I’m talking about your mom’s cousin’s twice removed aunt’s stepdaughter kind of family reunions.  As a kid I went to these and the only good part was the large variety of food brought.  I mean seriously you could just send out mass invites to 100+ strangers to show up at a park and bring food and you’d have almost the same experience.  No great aunt Susie (or is it Mary?) I don’t remember that story about me from when I was 2 years old but I bet you’re going to tell it to me again…

5 – “Surprise” proposals when you’ve been together for years.  No, this is not me secretly harboring anger over not having a traditional proposal.  It’s called no one is surprised; the person who is being proposed to included.  If you’ve been together more than 3 years and especially if you’re already living together it’s just not that big of a deal.  It’s just signifying that you’re going to move forward in spending a ton of money on a one day event to entertain other people… oh wait, that’s for another blog rant.

6 – Preschool, pre-K, kindergarten graduations.  When did the end of the school year program turn into a full fledged cap and gown affair?  I seriously laugh anytime I see pictures of these events on Facebook.  Congrats – you can color inside the lines now.  Really though why so much pomp and circumstance?  To me it takes away the significance of high school and college graduations.  I was part of an 8th grade graduation ceremony which apparently was a big deal because we were moving onto the high school… We, meaning all the kids who went to the same building as me for 3 years; so remind me again what was such a big deal that we needed a ceremony for that?

7 – Fancy ways of asking people to… be your bridesmaid, go to Prom, etc.  I don’t know what started this, but again I find it pointless.  I would guess 99% of people who are asking someone to be in their wedding already are close to them, so why do you need to make a big deal out of asking them?  The one that amuses me more those are these couples in high school who are already established couples asking each other to Homecoming or Prom.  Isn’t it just assumed you’re going to be going there together if you’re already dating?!?

On that note I hope everyone goes out and eats hamburgs and hot dogs and watches fireworks this weekend to celebrate the 4th of July!


About TracyNicole

Runner. Writer. Reader. Environmental advocate. Fascinated by the ocean, waterfalls and Christmas lights. Inspired by Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Elon Musk.
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